What do parents do? We get tired of taking care of our children, ‘said a female university professor, commenting emotionally. The woman said this when she was told that it was important for parents to take care of their children.
He said it badly, as if to say, ‘Does that mean we’re bad parents ?!’
The problem is not to get better or worse, but to know the important needs of children, to meet them and to make yourself a role model.
Just as adults need not only food, clothing or TV, mobile phones, etc. in their lives but also emotional, mental and spiritual solace, so too children need only clothes, food or tea from you. V, cartoons, etc. are not only needed but they also need your emotional, mental and spiritual support.
And the most important condition for children to know and fulfill the support they need is ‘standard parent time’.
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What is standard time?
Most parents complain that they spend a lot of time with their children, but there are children who are never happy. In fact, the concept of ‘standard time’ in our minds is just a moment spent in a delicious way. Separate research from the Journal and the University of Toronto shows that “delicious moments” do not significantly improve the relationship between parents and children.
It is important that parents understand the concept of ‘standard time’ properly, then the question arises, what is meant by standard time of this correct method?
This standard time actually refers to the moments that the mother and father give to the children with full attention and whole being ie consciousness, emotions and action.
Every moment you spend keeping their moods and interests in mind is the most important to them, whether it’s their small endeavors like drawing, complimenting a paper plane or working together cleaning the kitchen.
And then there is the question of what would happen if some parents could not give their children standard time due to their busy schedule. We try to answer this question in the following sentences.
The effects of not giving children quality time
Disadvantages of not giving standard time can occur in many different ways but some of them can be similar to the following disadvantages.
** The inevitable consequence of not giving parents time in childhood is to ignore you when the children become adults. **
** Children suffer from mild and severe psychiatric disorders. **
** Increased rate of involvement of children in crime, drug addiction and immoral behavior. **
Relationships between family members become unpleasant and sometimes bitter.
Affecting children’s physical and mental abilities.
Benefits of giving children quality time
Standard time assures children’s sensitive internal systems that parents ‘care’ for them. In addition, it is important for the development and comfort of children, but it can also have the following most important benefits.
Less behavioral problems
Children who spend quality time with their parents are less likely to have problems with bad behavior, whether at home or at a social event. Standard time helps reduce the rate and intensity of verbal fights and fights in children.
Standard time plays an important role in helping children to be happy, loved and adapt to different situations, as well as reducing the chances of children engaging in drugs or other negative activities.
Mental and emotional health
The feeling of love and care is one of the most important needs of children, standard time is actually the basis of these needs.
It is not enough just to be present at emergencies or important occasions, the regular time of the parents gives mental and emotional satisfaction and happiness to the children, then the same process makes the mindset of the children to understand the emotional details and have a pleasant attitude towards others.
Physical fitness
Along with mental health, standard time also improves physical health, sitting down to eat, food is both important and beneficial for children, especially keeping children together while preparing food, regarding healthy eating inside them. Creates awareness from
When and how do parents give their children standard time?
Of course, like most parents, your engagements will be quite high, so how do you give your children a standard time? For this, it is important that the standard time does not mean ‘full day’. When to give
There are many standard time opportunities throughout the day that parents can use, for example, before going to school, during lunch and dinner, before going to bed, you just need to adjust your preferences. Yes, standard time opportunities exist throughout the day.
If you are very busy, then think of certain times of the day when you can focus on your children and their things, such as cooking, washing clothes, going to the market, etc.
The best solution during this time of day is to schedule a day of the week or a few days of the month to let the children know what time you will be there for them.
There can be different ways and colors of standard time. Here are some suggestions.
Activities. Activities with children can be explored depending on the different days, seasons and occasions, help can be sought from the internet, for example what indoor or outdoor activities can be done during the rainy season.
In addition, sports, exercise for physical strength and art related activities will also be useful.
Learning Learning-teaching experiences such as science, mathematics, computer and technology and even various projects for the betterment of the society can be worked on, but in the meantime keep your budget and time in mind.
The seven-day challenge. Give yourself a 7-day challenge and a seven-day schedule to make standard time with kids easier and easier.
Set a specific time for each day, such as Monday afternoon, Tuesday evening, Wednesday night and Thursday morning.
Set aside an activity or learning-related game for each day, such as storytelling, and reward yourself for meeting the challenge of the day and a light punishment for not doing it.